impossible right? but how can we love someone without getting hurt so much?
well i think love is all in the mind,
and when it is in the mind we can control it.
we can love someone without expecting anything in return,
we can love someone unselfishly,
we can love someone just by enjoying the feelings, excitement and the emotions.
its difficult not to expect and assume when it comes to loving someone it's always part of the emotion; the thinking and reading someone's intentions for us.
but i think we can still love without getting hurt so much.
how?
well its simple to say but hard to do (control)..
you need to block all the ideas, the hoping, the dreaming, the imaginations,
of that someone in your mind..
you need to divert all the attentions to keep that someone out of your system so you can avoid the assumption and expectations. And the best way to love someone without getting hurt so much is to love yourself first; so all the thoughts that you think will hurt you, you can already block it and automatically your body will find its way to comfort itself.
well i think love is all in the mind,
and when it is in the mind we can control it.
we can love someone without expecting anything in return,
we can love someone unselfishly,
we can love someone just by enjoying the feelings, excitement and the emotions.
its difficult not to expect and assume when it comes to loving someone it's always part of the emotion; the thinking and reading someone's intentions for us.
but i think we can still love without getting hurt so much.
how?
well its simple to say but hard to do (control)..
you need to block all the ideas, the hoping, the dreaming, the imaginations,
of that someone in your mind..
you need to divert all the attentions to keep that someone out of your system so you can avoid the assumption and expectations. And the best way to love someone without getting hurt so much is to love yourself first; so all the thoughts that you think will hurt you, you can already block it and automatically your body will find its way to comfort itself.